Most people would find that absurd-a woman who likes women finds a guy ramming another guy in the arse an orgasmic image. So it's totally understandable that no one but a select few within the LGBT+ community would have heard about this. Lots of really quick and one sided sex scenes and hardly any masturbation or talk of what they like to watch. With the very small representation that we have of queer females in TV and film, almost none of them are shown to have a sexuality like that of a real queer women. I almost always end up watching gay porn. Nothing ever happens, no matter how hard I want to orgasm. Sometimes I’ll go through 10 lesbian pornos, all brightly lit blonde babes with fake boobs fingering each other's hairless vaginas most likely still wearing their 6 inch stiletto heels. Once I’m in my bed with my private browser on, I have an internal battle with myself on what porn to watch.
A masturbation session usually starts with these three things.
Lights dimmed, door locked, and clothes off.